Fanmail Friday: January 30th Edition

I would like to take a cruise but don’t like the idea of getting dressed up for dinner every night.  Are there any cruises that don’t require formal dinner wear?

To be completely honest most of the mainstream cruise lines suggest formal dinner wear during certain nights of your cruise.  However, these are only guidelines and not strict rules.  On most of the mainstream lines, you will see a significant percentage of passengers that choose not to partake in formal nights.  The cruise lines recognize that dressing up isn’t for everyone, but please be forewarned that you may not be able to dine in the main dining rooms unless you adhere to the guidelines there are a multitude of places available to eat.

I was told that you would receive much better dining room service if you tip the maitre d’ on the first night of the cruise.  Is this true or just a message board myth?

Honestly, I expect good service the minute I step foot onboard the ship.  Although I have never had to complain, if I ever experienced poor service I would just complain, but I refuse to bribe anyone into doing their job.  Now, if I ever have to make an unusual or unreasonable request I would feel inclined to compensate them for their trouble, but under most circumstances, I would never pre-tip.  Besides, if we are looking at bribing someone for performance what is their incentive to provide good service if I show them the money up front.

I am taking a cruise on Princess cruise line and wanted to know if I will be allowed to wear a Scottish kilt and jacket to formal night onboard the cruise ship?

Although this is probably the strangest question I have received to date, I actually do have an answer. A couple of years ago I was onboard the Crown Princess and saw a table full of Scots wearing their kilts. They really stood out from the crowd and although I don’t have the legs for it (and I’m not Scottish) I really thought they looked great. In other words go for it, just make sure you also wear a jacket and tie, not just the kilt.

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25 Tips For a First Time Cruiser

I was thinking back to when I was a newbie to cruising which prompted me to make a list of things that I either knew or wish I had known prior to taking my first cruise. So here is a list of 25 things that every newbie needs to know or do before leaving on their first cruise vacation.

  • Comparison Shop
  • Book Early
  • Secure travel insurance
  • Familiarize yourself with the cruise lines policies
  • Decide which dining time and style of dining fits you best
  • Research your ports
  • Subscribe to this blog
  • Set a budget for yourself (its very easy to get carried away while on vacation)
  • Write up detailed information about every part of your trip with someone at home
  • Make arrangements for someone to pick up your mail and newspapers
  • Alert the credit card companies of which ports you will be visiting
  • Make sure your passports are in order
  • Make plans to fly in the day before you cruise
  • Make sure you transportation plans to and from the airport or port are solid
  • Research any excursions you may want to take (they can get expensive really fast)
  • Pick all the medications you will need (even over the counter stuff)
  • Try seasickness remedies before you go (to make sure they don’t affect you negatively)
  • Pick up a good book to read (at times there will be waiting)
  • Make sure your camera is in working order
  • Pick up a backpack to hold your belongings while in port
  • Plan your wardrobe and then really think about if you really NEED everything you chose
  • Pack lightly
  • Make sure any bills that are due while you are away are taken care of
  • Don’t set your expectations too high or too low

Honestly, I know this list may seem daunting, but you can pick and choose which pieces of advice to follow.  The basic idea behind this list is to simple be prepared but you really don’t need to over think or over plan after all you are on vacation.  Those of you who noticed that I only listed twenty-four pieces of advice don’t need to worry; I saved the best piece of advice for last.  It comes to you from one of my favorite musicians.

Come and relax now
Put your troubles down
No need to bear the weight of your worries
Just let them all fall away.

Dave Matthews – Pantala Naga Pampa

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How I Avoid Weight Gain While On a Cruise

One of the biggest pros of going on a cruise vacation is the seemingly endless choice of cuisine.  Onboard a cruise ship you can find delicious food literally 24 hours a day.  In fact, even if you don’t feel like finding a bite to eat you can just pick up the phone and order room service whenever you would like.  The problem is this is also one of the biggest cons of cruising.  If you aren’t careful, it is very easy to pack on an extra five or so pounds in just seven days.

The problem is who wants to have to worry about such things on vacation, certainly not me.  So here are a few things I do while cruising to curb any weight gain without affecting my enjoyment of my vacation.

10 ways to avoid packing on the pounds on your next cruise vacation.

  • Diet before you go – I always try to get down to an ideal cruising weight before I leave for a cruise.  Usually I decide what my ideal weight is based on my current weight.  Currently I am walking around at a relatively decent weight of 174 pounds.  When I leave for my March cruise, I plan to be 167 pounds of twisted steel and sex appeal.
  • Don’t eat everything in sight – This is self-explanatory, just because it is there doesn’t mean you have to eat it.
  • Watch what you drink – I am not saying you shouldn’t have a few cocktails while on vacation all I am saying is you should be sure what you are putting into your body.  That delicious fruity drink of the day may contain 500 calories.  Although I do enjoy the occasional Miami Vice, I tend to opt for a more simple drink like vodka and cranberry or a run and diet coke (half the calories, twice the booze).
  • Choose something from the healthy choice menu – On a seven-day cruise I always make sure to set aside one day to eat from the healthy choice menu.  While one day of eating healthy doesn’t equal a healthy cruise, it does offset those times I choose to have a couple of “dessert drinks” while lounging at the pool.
  • Split your second entree – The menus these cruise lines put together are so enticing that there will be times where you desire more than one entree.  If you choose to get a second entree see if someone else at the table would like to split it with you rather than going it alone.
  • Go easy on the desserts – I am an ice cream fanatic but I rarely indulge in the soft serve ice cream served on many cruise ships.  Instead, I usually choose to wait until dinner to satisfy my cravings.
  • Take the stairs – one the absolutely best ways to get exercise without going out of your way is by taking the stairs.  Sometimes elevators are unavoidable such as formal nights when you are wearing 4-inch heels but for those other times unless you are going from deck 2 to deck 13 you should be walking.
  • Dance – No need to be shy, most people on cruise ships are horrible dancers so just drop your guard and join the fray. Besides, in all likelihood you will never see these people again so who cares if you look like a fool.
  • Walk while in port – This is one of the simplest weight gain prevention tips available.  The ports cruise ships visit are so different than what we are accustomed to in our everyday lives seeing them via a walking tour is such a pleasure that it doesn’t even seem like exercise.
  • Scope out the buffet before choosing – I always see people grab a plate and immediate start lunging at every thing offered.  Not me, I am more selective than that (a buffet connoisseur if you will).  I tend to walk the length of the buffet weighing all of the options before I even pick up a plate, which allows me to choose only the things that I really want.  I usually get a few dirty looks from people assuming I am trying to cut the line. By the way am I the only one who finds it funny that people with food stacked a foot and half high on a plate feel the need to look at you funny.

Just remember that it all comes down to one simple thing, you must burn more calories than you eat.  If you eat more than you burn, the result is bound to be unwanted weight gain.  In other words get involved, have fun and stay active.

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